so i blogged about tips for a first date with me earlier. why not go to the other end of the spectrum--the break up. sadface, no one likes these. even if it's not technically a breakup but a definite goodbye.
well here's what i've noticed. of the few guys i've dated or been in relationships with...they have all said they were able to remain friends with their exes. but, my question to you, oh loyal readers, is this: what if you were never friends to begin with??
you see i have never got into a relationship with someone i was friends with first. the friendship built along with the relationship. so naturally, upon their endings...it has appeared to be impossible to "go back" to being friends when, well, we never had that (without romantic feelings) to begin with.
apparantly i can't have both. an ex that is also a friend. fuckin bummer. because
unfortunately i don't yet talk to any of them.
hopefully, you don't become one of them. cuz if i like you enough (and you make it past date one and my top 10 first-date peeves) chances are i'll miss you when we stop talking. i'm only human. granted, i'm an awesome human.
anyway, just a thought i had this afternoon as another chapter closed. and i'm into the next.